Smart Service Society helps you to Live, to Love, to Learn and leave a legacy. *"Interdependence is a higher value than independence"* Our idea and works are not a set of separate or piecemeal psych-up formulas. In harmony with the natural laws of growth, they provide an incremental, sequential, highly integrated approach to the development of personal and interpersonal effectiveness. They move progressively on a maturity continuum from dependence to independence to interdependence. We each begin life as an infant, totally dependent on others. We are directed, nurtured and sustained by others. Without this nurturing, we would only live for a few hours or a few days at the most. Then gradually, over the ensuing months and years, we become more and more independent - physically, mentally, emotionally and financially - until eventually we can essentially take care of ourselves, becoming inner- directed and self - reliant. As we continue to grow and mature, we become increasingly aware that all of nature is interdependent, that there is an ecological system that governs nature, including society. We further discover that the higher reaches of our nature have to do with our relationship with others - that human life also is interdependent. Our growth from infancy to adulthood is in accordance with natural law. And there are many dimensions to growth. Reaching our full physical maturity, for example, does not necessarily assure us of simultaneous emotional or mental maturity. On the other hand, a person's physical dependence does not mean that he or she is mentally or emotionally immature. On the maturity continuum, dependence is the paradigm of you - you take care of me; you come through for me; you didn't come through; I blame you for the results. Independence is the paradigm of I - I can do it; I am responsible; I am self - reliant; I can choose. interdependence is the paradigm of we - we can do it; we can co-operate; we can combine our talents and abilities and create something greater together. Independent thinking alone is not suited to interdependent reality. Independent people who do not have the maturity to think and act interdependently may be good individual producers, but they won't be good leaders or team players. They are not coming from the paradigm of interdependence necessary to succeed in marriage, family, or organisational reality. Interdependence is a far more mature, more advanced concept. *Inrerdependency is the real way to real SUCCESS.
life is, by nature a highly interdependent. To try to achieve maximum effectiveness through independence is like trying to play tennis with a golf club - that tool is not suited to the reality.
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